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LaShawn and April of ‘Tamar and Vince’ Share How Their Marriage Works

Tamar and Vince might be the title of the show, but LaShawn and April Daniels are its breakout stars. The couple recently had one of their rough patches broadcast in a recent episode of the reality show but appearances can be deceiving. The couple thinks showing the ins and outs of their marriage is a [...]

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How Do You Know You Are in the Right Relationship? Here are 31 Ways

As anyone living in the age of depressing divorce rates knows, a happy long-term couple is almost like a unicorn: If by some miracle you encounter it, you can’t stop staring, and you have a feeling no one will ever believe you when you tell them you saw it. The Internet is filled with articles [...]

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When It Comes to Finances, Can a 50/50 Relationship Really Work?

Teddy Pendergrass sang about a 50/50 love back in the day and everyone seemed to co-sign the check. When it comes to matters of money, though, that split can be hard to maintain and just might not be worth the effort. Read the post from Young of Young and Thrifty to see what I mean: [...]

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Are We Still Willing to Put in the Work Needed for Long-Lasting Relationships?

What makes a good marriage?” I once posed this question to a 99 year old man with some experience in this matter. He replied, “Hard work. We should know. Harriet and I have been working at it for over seventy-five years.” He went on to describe some despairing periods when he wanted to walk out [...]

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Thank Mr. Wrong for Making Room for Mr. Right

One of the biggest obstacles to having a good dating life is trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. All too often, I see both women and men attempting to make a relationship work that is just not meant to be. Then many of my sister-friends get down and out when that [...]