‘Growth & Maturity’: Tamar Braxton Fans Root for Her Family After Boyfriend and Ex Husband Reunite

It seems all is well in Tamar Braxton‘s life.

The “Love and War” singer took to Instagram on Thursday morning and shocked social media users with a photo of her boyfriend David Adefeso and her estranged husband Vincent Herbert hugging. She said people often think her life is full of “drama” due to her being a television personality, but in all reality it’s not.

“It’s so funny that people and certain tv shows think that my life is filled with drama, foolishness and turmoil when it is the TOTAL opposite,” Braxton wrote, adding a photo of Adefeso and Herbert.

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(L) David Adefeso and (R) Vincent Herbert. @tamarbraxton/Instagram

“God is Good and my life is full of love, joy and blessings🙏🏼 🥰🥰 #2goodmen @officialvincentherbert  @david.adefeso (this post might be To positive for some of yall😉.”

Fans chimed in on Braxton’s post, elated to see her ex and current love reunite.

“Awww this is growth & maturity. Every break up doesn’t have to get ugly or stay ugly! #2grownmendotcom ❤️”

“Girl this just touched my soul. If more men can be adult like especially when co parenting is involved. God is good”

“This photo speaks volumes, your ex-husband posing with your future husband 😍. Wow I must say I’m surprised 🤯”

“This is awesome! Not many families can come together like this… In the words of Ms. E #lookatGOD ❤️ #adulting #grownfolks”

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LOS ANGELES, CA – MAY 1: Music artists Vincent Herbert and Tamar Braxton attend the 2016 Daytime Emmy Awards – Arrivals at Westin Bonaventure Hotel on May 1, 2016 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Leon Bennett/WireImage)

In October 2017, Braxton filed for divorce from Herbert after nearly nine years of marriage. They officially divorced in July 2019.

“I decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so,” she said on Instagram in a November post after announcing their split. “I wanted to have a relationship. Someone to share my/our dreams, our successes, our failures, our past, present and future with..and not finding out s— online.”

Despite their nasty legal battle in court, Braxton and Herbert apparently decided to put their issues aside for their 6-year-old son Logan Herbert, and co-parent successfully.

“I’m glad I got my friend back,” she said on the “The Natalie Eva Marie Show” in last February.” Our relationship is great, we cool.”

In April 2018, the singer confirmed her romance with Adefeso. The couple have since been together and appear to be in love more than ever.

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