‘Y’all Think We Resemble?’: Yandy Smith Questions Fans After They Claim She and Husband Mendeecees Look Like Siblings

Yandy Smith-Harris and her husband Mendeecees Harris have a few questions for folks claiming they look alike.

Earlier this week, Smith-Harris posted two adorable family photos, one with their 5-year-old daughter Skylar and another with their 7-year-old son Omere. With both portraits, fans claimed the “Love and Hip Hop: New York” star and her husband were starting to resemble each other.

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(Left photo) Yandy Smith-Harris, 7-year-old Omere Harris, (right photo) Yandy, 5–year-old Skylar Harris, and Mendeecees Harris. @yandysmith/Instagram

“They say when a couple really in love they start resembling each other .. that’s it u all related 😂,” one fan wrote at the time.

Someone else commented, “I thought it was just me. Yandy and Mendeecees are starting to look like one another.”

On Tuesday, May 19, Smith-Harris took to Instagram and addressed fans’ remarks by posting a couples pic of herself and Harris. She wrote alongside the caption, “WAIT! SO YALL THINK WE RESEMBLE? @mendeecees 🤣🧐So according to you all he got Skylar on the look alike and I got Omere but many of you said we look like brother and sister…really?”

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Mendeecees Harris and Yandy Smith. @yandysmith/Instagram

Her post instantly sparked mixed reactions.

“No y’all don’t look alike to me! But y’all make a beautiful couple, and a beautiful family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So happy for you both!!!!!!!!! You deserve all the happiness you want and more!!!!!!!!!!!! I love watching y’all prosper!!!!!!!!!!!!!💞💞💞💞💞💞”

“They say couples that are gonna last look alike! And he’s y’all resemble each other”

“I dont see the resemblance, y’all just some damn good looking man and woman and yall kids are so beautiful💞”

“Y’all kinda do sis lol such a beautiful family. Thats what happens when you with the same person for years 😆”

“Ms. Yandy, before I read the post, I was already thinking you two look alike. 💗”

Smith-Harris and her husband began dating in 2006 after they met in the music industry. The couple tied the knot in 2015.

In a March Instagram post, Mendeecees Harris penned his wife a sweet message and expressed how grateful he was for her. He wrote, “I know the coronavirus is going crazy right now but there’s no place I rather be than right here with u. I truly believe this is God’s plan. I came home just in time to share this moment with u, be here with u and make u smile, while we face our hardest challenge of them all. I can’t promise what the future holds, however I know I will do my best to make you happy as long as I’m alive.”

In addition to his two children with Smith-Harris, Harris has an 8-year-old son and a 10-year-old son from previous relationships.

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