‘What Happens In the Dungeon Stays In the Dungeon’: Kandi Remains Hush on Cynthia Bailey’s Bachelorette Dungeon Party Details and Fans Aren’t Mad

Kandi has been and will continue to keep her lips sealed when it comes to what really went down at the now-infamous bachelorette dungeon party for Cynthia Bailey, Burruss’ “The Real Housewives of Atlanta” castmate.

During a two-part episode of her “Speak On It” web series, Kandi was joined by Kandi Koated Entertainment general manager DonJuan Clark to break down the juicy Sunday, Feb. 21 episode of the Bravo reality series. In the episode, Kenya Moore did her best to infer which of the ladies kept their party going all night long with male stripper BOLO, and made sure to stir up as much controversy as she could along the way.

Kandi and DonJuan Clark discuss the series of events that took place during Strippergate. Photo: @kandi/Instagram

The Xscape singer has proven that she’s no snitch when it comes to spilling all the good tea on the goings-on between her “RHOA” castmates during the raunchy evening, refusing neither to verbally confirm nor deny the accusations that ended up landing on both Porsha Williams and Tanya Sam. Burruss explained her neutral stance during the second part of her recap episode.

“So let’s be clear,” she began at 6:13, “Even when we do the tour…I do this whole speech at the beginning of the night and I say ‘What happens in the dungeon stays in the dungeon…and if you’re here to judge then take your a** home.’…Even in the show they show me saying ‘I’m here to teach them how to live, be their true selves.’ Be who you are, whatever whatever. So for me, why would I be here telling you to live your best life, be you, do you, whatever you want to do, but then crucify you for it?”

Fans were impressed by Kandi’s discretion and gave her props for always remaining the coin-stacking professional.

“Kandi is the Queen of ‘Turn a shade tree into a money tree.’ That should be her forever tag line.”

“U made the dungeon into a money tree…. just like everything”

“Another business is born “Kandi’s Bachelorette Parties”KBP parties I won’t be surprised Kandi is about her money 😂”

“If Kenya wanted to know what happened she should’ve stayed downstairs.”

“I’m ready to attend a dungeon party! I’ll sign an NDA if needed.”

Those who want to get in on Kandi’s dungeon party action are in luck. The star tweeted that as soon as it’s safe, she plans on throwing another sexy gathering for the public.

Watch the full part-two episode of “Speak On It” below.

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