Fathers Want to Spend More Time with Their Children

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fatherThey worry they don’t spend enough time with their kids. They’re exhausted by just how much they have to cram into their days, juggling work with loading the dishwasher, driving to taekwondo practice, supervising homework and planning the Girl Scout camping trip.

The pressure is relentless.

This isn’t just Mom anymore. This is Dad.

Fathers with children younger than 18 are now about as likely as mothers to say they feel
pressed for time and have difficulty balancing the demands of work and home, according to a major report released Thursday by the Pew Research Center. Although mothers and fathers feel the strain, stressed fathers are unhappier about it. Far more fathers say they feel they aren’t spending enough time with their children: 46 percent, compared with 23 percent of mothers.

Although fathers’ time with children has tripled since 1965, fathers still spend only about half as much time with their children, on average, as do mothers. The Pew Research report found that fathers are also less likely than mothers to think that they’re doing a good job as a parent. “Do I feel rushed? Oh, tell me about it. I don’t feel like I give everyone a fair shot at my time. And of course, all three of my kids want it at the same time, and they’re not old enough to be patient and wait,” said Neal Snyder of Alexandria, a lobbyist, talking on his cellphone during his commute to work in the District after dropping his three children off at two schools. Because his job is more flexible than that of his wife, an executive at an association, he is often the go-to parent. Snyder, whose own father’s home duties tended to the more traditional grilling and mowing, is a Girl Scout-certified camping adult and has the owl pin to prove it. He’s also involved in Boy Scouts and ferries kids from
after-school care to ice skating lessons and baseball practice.

“I tell people that the easiest part of my day is going to work. And the hardest part is the hour and a half in the morning and the three hours in the evening at home.

Being a parent is the hardest job I have. But I wouldn’t change it.” Time-use studies have found
that fathers have been gradually increasing time spent on children
and chores.

Read more at WashingtonPost.com

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