Great Sex. It’s something every married couple wants. As a solution, maybe you’ve thought about spicing up your sex life to make the Holidays extra special. Maybe you want to start off the new year with a bedroom bang. That’s great! Making sex memorable, romantic and fun is a fine idea but it’s important to remember that sex is not just a one time event saved for special events or Holidays. Sex is an integral part of marriage for both partners. It’s not simply a gimmick or a reward. It’s a response. A response that says, “I want to be completely connected. Completely immersed. Completely free.”
Today we want to share three gifts you can be sure to include for one another this Christmas Season. These gifts won’t just give you some happy moments, but they’ll help you have a sex happy marriage.
1. The gift of knowledge.
No, we are not suggesting a refresher course in 7th grade health. What we are suggesting is that you take time to really understand sex. Sexual intimacy in marriage is far more than simply understanding how body parts connect. It’s also about the emotional, mental and spiritual connection. If you want to have a great married sex life then take time to really think through what might be missing from yours. There are a number of great resources to help you get to know more about sex. Here are just a few.
The Marriage Bed – This web sight has a ton of information about sex, spirituality and marriage. There is incredible depth and thought that has gone into the sight and we happen to respect and admire the wonderful people who run it. Thanks Paul and Lori for breaking the mold and giving Christian couples solid information about Godly Sexuality!
Shelia Gregoire recently released 31 Days to Great Sex which is a wonderfully written e-book that can help you begin the journey to better understanding the many different facets of sex. The book is easily readable, written to both husbands and wives and includes challenges that couples can work through…
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