Reasons To Take A Second Look At Nice Guys

The reason you aren’t getting very far in the dating world is because you haven’t let go of the girl you were in high school. We know it’s a stereotype, but sometimes women seek after the rebellious cool guy. While we’re driving ourselves crazy to impress Mr. Cool, the undiscovered nerd or nice guy is standing in the shadows waiting to be noticed. Its time you give this soft-spoken guy who is sincere and genuinely nice to you a second look because of the following 8 reasons. 1. He’s A Gentleman He will always have your best interest at heart and will keep coming up with romantic advances that come off as endearing and honest. He might not be macho looking but he will treat you like a lady, open doors, give you flowers, and surprise you with gifts that will put a smile on your face. 2. He Keeps the Right Company Quiet or nerdy guys often have similar types of friends. So instead of bad influences or disrespectful attitudes, your nice man is hanging out with guys who are interested in things that keep them out of trouble. They discuss politics, technology, network gaming etc. Its a welcome reprieve from the raunchy “Guys Night Out,” when who knows what could happen. Plus, his buddies treat you nice when you come around, while your new man will be the hit in the group with such a hot woman on his arm. 3. You Can Be Yourself You don’t have to put on a show for these guys by wearing 4 inch heels and making yourself up to look like a goddess. We bet they wouldn’t mind your hair in a ponytail, natural, the makeup-free glow, or your favorite jersey. You can be yourself around him and he won’t be the jerk that works so hard to make you feel ugly. 4. He’s a Smarty Pants That guy is usually intelligent, can hold a good job and is overall self-sufficient. He’s probably responsibly planned for and invested in his future well before any of us have started. Smart guys can also open your horizons and can offer a perspective or education about world news, politics or obscure movie trivia. 5. You’ll get the Star Treatment Often overlooked, these guys can appreciate a woman when they get one. Likely to be a priority in his life, they show you off to their friends, call when they say they will and will most likely impress Mom and Dad. Most importantly you won’t be on a long list of ladies dying for some time with him. 6. He’s Open to Suggestions You can offer tips on fashions, food or even music of present day. They realize that they could use the help when shopping and welcome your assistance because they appreciate your options. 7. He’s Resourceful He tend to be more tech-savvy than the average guy who spends alot of time at the gym building muscles. So whenever a frustrating situation happens with your car, plumbing, deleting cookies or synchronizing the network, he can get those gadgets to behave or knows someone who can help. 8. He’ll Make You Laugh With quirky interests and a matching sense of humor; he can share some interesting trivia or strange hobbies and while laughing at themselves, too. It’s a welcome deviation from the “I’m too cool to laugh at myself” act. Like finding a diamond in the rough, that guy can be your own little treasure that no one has discovered yet. You may improve your chances of making a real connection if you give him a second look. Don’t let his sense of style, look, relationship inexperience or shyness stop you from experiencing this untapped resource.

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