As humans we learn by example or by mistake. From infancy to adulthood, we succeed better when we are taught i.e. learning to walk, talk, cook, read, write, swim etc because there are rules. Relationships don’t come with a rule book, so seeking intervention or a counselor is one way to regain a healthy and balanced relationship. Also the emotional state for both parties can be regained. Do you think you need couples counseling? These are 7 signs that indicate there is fire on the mountain and you might consider seeking the services of an expert.