Is He The One? 6 Signs That He Is Mr. Right

Do you wish you had a crystal ball that could tell you if the guy you are dating is “Mr. Right”? You are not alone because too many of us make bad decisions about men and end up committing to relationships that don’t bring us happiness. We also know a girlfriend or two who got burned in relationships by guys who turned out to be less than Prince Charming. Despite all the romantic comedies and countless articles on how to determine if a guy is “Mr. Right,” there is no magic answer to finding your perfect man. But don’t lose hope because there are certain qualities to look for if you have doubts that your significant other is the one. We have put together a list of 6 signs that proves he’s Mr. Right. Sign #1: R-E-S-P-E-C-T When it comes to figuring out if he is the right one, respect should be at the top of the list. Respect is an intrinsic factor and some men forget to display this characteristic. Respect is also something that should go both ways. He should respect you and you should respect him, in turn. Respect is displayed in the way he talks to you, addresses your feelings, values your opinion and so on. Set your boundaries and Mr.Right won’t cross the boundaries you have set. Respect is NOT how Chrissy Lampkin described it on VH1's Love & Hip Hop. Sign #2: He Listens To You Communication is the foundation to any good or healthy relationship. Mr. Right will listen to you because he thinks what you say is important. You will know he’s listening to you when he shows genuine concern and remembers things like your favorite food, your birthday, aspirations, and offers emotional support in thoughtful ways. Sign #3: You Can Be Yourself Do you feel that you need to sacrifice all or some part of yourself to get his approval? In the right relationship, you don’t have to hide, tone down, or apologize any aspect of your fabulous life. Mr. Right loves you for who you are (internally and externally), flaws and all and you can be yourself at all times without having to hide your hair, your body, family, job, lifestyle, opinion and the list goes on, no compromises needed. If you are being yourself and he still loves you, then you know he is here to stay. Sign #4: You Trust Him Is he constantly checking out other women when you are in his company or do you question his whereabouts? If the answer is, yes, then trust is not embedded in your relationship. A relationship without trust cannot thrive or survive. Mr. Right has your best interest at heart, he is open about everything, his words and body language should synchronize, and he will never intentionally hurt your feelings. When you trust him, you have no doubt in your mind about his honesty, integrity and credibility. Sign #5: He Enriches Your Life Mr. Wrong will tear you down, bring tears to your eyes, and drains your energy. However, Mr. Right will enrich your life and inspire you. He will support you mentally, physically, professionally, and spiritually. Sign #6: He Talks About The Future You have to determine if you are looking for Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now. The difference is that Mr.Right has plans for now and future, while Mr. Right Now is seeking instant gratification and there is no reassurance he will be there tomorrow. If your significant other verbalizes his thought about the future and remotely indicates that you are in it, then he might be that special someone. Keep in mind that Mr. Right is also looking for Mrs. Right so you have to possess the right qualities as well. Also remember that discovering if someone is the right one for you usually takes some time. While there is no set-in-stone policy for finding love, these 6 signs can help you determine if he is the right one.

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