10 Disrespectful Things You Should Never Say to a Black Woman

Black woman with braids

‘Do You Braid Hair?’

Unless a Black girl has already informed you that she is a hair stylist or beautician of some sort, there is no reason for you to ask if she knows how to braid hair. It’s just another stereotype that mainstream media picked up and ran with. There are many Black girls who have never braided hair in their entire lives, and making the assumption that all Black women braid hair is just a way of exposing your own racist subconscious.

Black people dancing

‘You Must Know How to Dance, Right?’

Being Black is not some sort of “one size fits all” cultural label that ensures every Black person is equipped with a certain set of skills that certifies their Blackness. Many Black women can’t dance, and this stereotype, like so many others, is merely rooted in the type of racism that has been quietly cackling behind the doors of mainstream media for decades.

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