Usher Raymond Reveals His Mistakes In Relationships

Usher Raymond is struggling to compose himself during his nasty custody battle with ex-wife Tameka Foster Raymond. In the meantime the longtime R&B star sat down with Q magazine to dish on what he’s learned from his previous relationships,

“What were my issues? Well maybe not locking into one relationship! I was a little bit more… experimental. I’ve had many women. And I understand how to deal with a lot of different ones… But it is complicated when your reality is a fantasy. Fame is the modern double-edged sword.”

Usher also revealed that his experience has taught him that all women are different,

“So, puh-lease, in no way, shape, form or fashion should you ever put them in the same box or category. But I’ve learned what women like. Confidence. And I’ve learned there is a softness that only a woman can possess. And you begin to see it when they have something, like a child, to love.”

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