‘Gets Out of the Car, Boss!’: Racist Driver Hurls Slurs at Black Man, Hides in His Locked Car, and Quickly Gets Humbled

A viral video shows a white driver hurling insults at a Black man — all while refusing to exit his car when confronted.

The Black man who goes by Abe online filmed himself taunting the driver until the frustrated man repeatedly struck his own car window.

“Get out of the car, boss. Get out the car. Let’s just get this over with,” Abe told the driver, who was parked with his doors locked and window cracked.

 

Racist Driver Hurls Slurs at Black Man, Hides in His Locked Car, and Quickly Gets Humbled
A camera captured a New Jersey man seeking safety in his car while hurling racist attacks.(Photos: Instagram/hegirlslovemebad)

The driver had just yelled at him through the windshield, calling him a “f–king Black ass piece of sh–.” He also said Abe’s skin color was as “brown as sh–,” following a minor parking dispute at a Walmart in Kearny, New Jersey.

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The man sat blinking, staring blankly into the distance as he slowly realized he was the captive audience.

Abe challenged him to a fight, but the man refused to step out of the car. “See how you can say all that stuff but be a coward at the same time?” Abe told him, pointing out the contradiction.

At first the man owned it, saying, “Yeah, I can,” but then he doubled down on the racist behavior. “I’m damn proud of it,” he said, adding, “I’m gonna stay here [in the car] and make you wait.”

Now standing directly in front of the man’s driver’s side door, Abe’s response was a master class in mind games. “No, I’m gonna stay here and make you wait,” he said. “You the one inside the car. You the one inside the hot car. Trapped. Hot. Scared of this Black man. You the one scared of this Black man that you saying all this stuff about.”

After more back-and-forth, Abe leaned close to the window and said in a very quiet voice, “Get out of the car, boss.” This prompted the man to slam his fist against the car window several times.

“Not scared, boss,” Abe responded. “You’re just punching your own glass. Punch it harder so it could break. Do it!” The man punched his glass yet again. For a parting shot, Abe moved closer to the window with his phone and told the man, “Say your name for the people.”

Abe explained it was all just psychological warfare. In a top comment with nearly 11,000 likes, he wrote:  

“I never intended on actually hurting ol boy cuz he was truly scared and [I don’t] prey on the weak! But I definitely enjoyed making him eat his words and be scared bcuz if you [could] say all that [you should] be able to stand on it!! He walked away unharmed tho!!”

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