
Image by © Greg Hinsdale/Corbis
Black People Don’t Get Married
One of the most pervasive myths about romantic relationships involving Black couples is that their relationships rarely end in marriage. After examining census data from 2005 to 2009, Howard and Morehouse scholars Ivory A. Toldson and Bryant Marks found that 75 percent of Black women marry before age 35.
Eighty-eight percent of married Black men tied the knot with a Black woman, according to Toldson’s research. He also noted that Black women in small towns have higher marriage rates than white women in urban centers such as New York and Los Angeles.
Black people should rebuke the media and society at large for propagating this silly misconception that continues to breed more mistrust and alienation between Black men and women.
Whites and Other Groups Should Help Black People
Black empowerment leader Marcus Garvey said that “the best of a race does not live on the patronage and philanthropy of others, but makes an effort to do for itself.” He also warned that “any leadership that teaches you to depend upon another race is a leadership that will enslave.”
