Men Got the Message: Their Contribution Not Needed
As sociologists and mental health professionals would attest, for at least two generations these government policies have sent to Black men a loud and clear message in Black communities: Their contributions to the household aren’t needed. They know the mother, having become accustomed by the system to judge the value of a partner based on financial contributions to the household, will often be less interested in their assistance in raising the children. In millions of cases, this has sapped their willingness and desire to make a strong case to be in their children’s lives, even after they no longer have a romantic relationship with the mother. Ironically, a recent study revealed that Black fathers are actually more involved in their children’s lives than white and Hispanic fathers when given the chance. But the rules of the system have made it increasingly unlikely in poor communities that this involvement will come as a married member of the same household as the child.
