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Online Dating Horror Story: Black Men Who Prefer The 'Other' Race

Last night I came across a very hilarious yet unsettling story on a beauty blog, Theflycut.com, by the writer who recalled an online dating experience. Tia Williams, a successful author of several beauty books, a longtime beauty blogger and recent divorcee who also happens to be a black woman from DC had a disastrous experience.

Meet the candidate, a young 31-year old radiologist from Ghana by way of London, sharply dressed man. Let’s cut to the chase and read Tia’s snippet of the interaction,

Tia, bored: So how long have you been on blankety blank site?
Dr. Dandy: Awhile, but I have to admit something.
Tia: (you’re gay) What?
Dr. Dandy: You’re the first brown woman I’ve asked out in years.
Tia: How odd. Why?
Dr. Dandy: I have in profile that I really only want to date girls outside my race.
[Note: I barely read his profile. I saw “Yale” and “radiologist,” and jumped. I’m not proud of this.]
Tia: Sooo…what do you think I am?
Dr. Dandy: I figured you were mixed, so I thought I’d give you a chance (huge belly laugh).
Tia: Nope, regular black girl. From DC, no less. Black black black. My middle name is Aisha.
Dr. Dandy: I guess my radar is off, hardyhardyhar (another guffaw)!
I’m totally grossed out, swishing a straw around in my Orangina and formulating an exit line.
Dr. Dandy: How old are you, may I ask?
Tia, adding on four years to bother him: Forty. You?
Dr. Dandy: Forty? Hrmph. I’m thirty-one.
Tia: Oh, you’re a baby.
Wait for it…
Dr. Dandy: Don’t call me a baby. I’m a grown ass man. Don’t ever call me a baby.

Interracial dating in America is on the raise and it’s really nothing new. But why take a staunch position AGAINST dating someone of your own race? Last night on LaLa’s Full Court she was adamant about proving her trainer wrong that black women are adventurous – this was one his many reasons for not dating black women.

Are you offended by people who choose to strictly date outside of their race?


  1. Shelly says:

    I am not offended, most of these people are actually people who hate themselves and are ashamed of their color and race

  2. Shaniya says:

    Honestly, I am sick of some black women who act like they’re dying because a black man won’t date them. By now, we should all know the modus operandi of many black males is to breed out as much as possible, and they’re quite gleeful in telling black women that they’re not wanted.

    I feel sorry for those black women who want nothing but a black man as a mate, because this is one of many instances where black men are telling you that you are not their only option, or you’re simply not wanted.

    Time to wake up, and stop hitting the snooze button.

  3. very helpful and useful dating article. I really liked it

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